What happens when you have a surplus of holidays? Ask me. You’ll start trying crazy things. I am singing Tera hone laga hoon(Ajab prem ki gazab kahani) for the nth time. Have you tried singing the first four lines of Chiggy Wiggy from Blue with that flow?
Every Man Who Ever Sees Me Wants To Hold My Hand
And Be The One Who Gets Me To Say Oh I Do
Swear Eternal Undying Devotion Yes They Swear
That They Will Love Me Forever Love Me True
I tried, not successful!!
For the record, I don’t personally prefer watching Akshay Kumar’s performances since somehow they seem repeating(most of them supposedly a laugh riot! But I cant! Well! Laugh) and one major good thing, most of the songs in his films do become a hit. But what striked me in the song – Chiggy Wiggy apart from the attitude was the apparent reverence I have for Kylie Minogue. I love the way she sings “Baby” with an awesome attitude.
I became a fan of Kylie Minogue coz of her uplifting songs and happy-go-lucky numbers which were very easily humm-able. But the reverence increased after I heard about her breast cancer battle. Well, Kudos to anyone who goes through this battle and supposedly comes out of it(Well! here’s the sad news, it usually can have a re-occurrence after a couple of years. So you keep crossing your fingers that you don’t end up getting the chemotherapy doses ever again in your life. Life sucks sometimes! ). I feel happy seeing people who actually come out of this. I am proud of them. There are a lot of factors which do help in the recovery process. The benefit of having caring and selfless family and relatives(Most of the times, you start seeing the true colors of people here! Life is as rosy as you make it to be, life is as cruel as other people make it to be. Isnt it? Its your job to get to see the rosy side.) and friends, the right assistance by the hospital and doctors, the right attitude towards life, the right hands-on information about the disease, the right sense of decision of whether to take a second opinion or whether a test actually determines about the cause, effect or cure. The “Ah! It can’t happen to me, Why will it?” to “Why me!?” to “What did I do wrong in life” to “I have no interest in living” to “I have seen enough in life” to “I can win” pendulum phases are the traumatic and toughest. It takes a lot to win life and win in life. Really happy that these people have the guts to come out and shine on as they always had and much more. Whoa!
I did a little search on Cancer and Cancer survivors. I was overwhelmed by the list.
Lance Armstrong – Fan ever since I read his book – Its not about the bike(Best autobiography apparently – Grab it when you can.)
Paul Allen – Microsoft co-founder, was diagnosed and treated for Hodgkin’s lymphoma in 1983
Nuclear Physicist, Nobel Prize Laureate, Richard P. Feynman’s beloved first wife might have died of this lymphoma disease after all being accidentally, correctly though, diagnosed by a physician in the hospital where she was hospitalized at the time Feynman was working on the Manhattan Project. The featuring doctor curiously matches the “infamous” character moves of Dr. House in the popular TV show going by the same name. (look also for the story in: Surely You’re Joking, Mr. Feynman!) – Ah! I am seeing the references of this book too much lately, I have to read this!!
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http://www.indianexpress.com/pictureStory.php?galId=631&pg=0&view=0
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Cancer_survivors
There would be many many more not listed here!
Here’s food for thought.This might be of little help from this stupid blog.
http://www.cancer.org/docroot/home/index.asp
http://www.cancer.gov/
I am reminded of Lisa Ray, the latest entry into the family of cancer afflicted celebs. Even Pamela Anderson – its been 7 years since I read that she’s gonna die in 4 years- and she still walks the ramp. Jeoffrey Boycott too, who never lost his sense of humour even after months of intense chemotherapy.
I have always tried to imagine how I am gonna react when I know that I am gonna die in a few years. Tough! As you said, I am sure the first few months ll go away while screaming ‘why me?’. But I am sure, from then on I am gonna live every moment of my life usefully, doing things I ve never done. You know why they say ‘live everyday as if its your last’.
Who can forget Randy Pausch btw?
By: Solitary Reaper on October 20, 2009
at 4:35 PM
I love Kylie. Goddess I tell you
By: niaboctruk on October 20, 2009
at 4:35 PM
Nice Pota kanammi
By: niaboctruk on October 20, 2009
at 4:39 PM
Nobody can answer the question “Why me?”. But their stories offer a great source of inspiration. Everytime I feel a little low or when I feel cheated, I read “It’s not about the bike”. Everytime I fail at being happy, I listen to Randy Pausch. Every time I think I cant do something because I’m not good enough for it, I watch ‘The beautiful mind’. Because they are the people who overcame all the obstacles to do what they truly wanted to do. And as Princess Isabelle says in Braveheart, ‘Every man dies, not every man really lives’.
By: The Lonely Saint on October 21, 2009
at 7:57 PM
Thejas : Yeah I know. and Randy Pausch’s “Follow ur childhood dreams” was exceptional.
Daya : Thanks kano.
Bhargava : yeah they are awesome inspirations.
By: Shwetha on October 22, 2009
at 11:21 AM
You know, there’s something different about all these survivors, that makes us view them as though they are not mortals (They certainly aren’t mortals in my view)
It would be a shame on us, if we were to give up on lesser things in everyday life, when these people have battled all odds and yet survived…
By: Sandeep on October 24, 2009
at 1:36 AM